Note: this email is part of the new section of my newsletter focusing more narrowly on woo stuff, meditation, etc. It’s called the Woo Papers. If you’re not interested in these subjects, but want to r...
Let me just bastardize some Buddhism for you guys, in the service of telling you one of the most important things I know. There are two kinds of desire. It’s hard to tease them apart conceptually. But...
Once, in my 20s, I was in a fictitious relationship, layered on top of a real relationship. The person I was dating was real, but the way I saw her barely connected to the underlying facts of her life...