fix(worker): stop durable session retries from freezing node hosts (#…

fix(worker): stop durable session retries from freezing node hosts (#160812)

* fix(worker): stop durable session retries from freezing node hosts

* test(worker): name closing window harness as repro

* test(worker): fix loopback harness checks

* test(worker): adapt closing-window regression to Gateway tools

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