Any advice on what me and my friend should do? I feel stuck. (Long read)

Me and my friend are both 19 and have 9-5 jobs. But other than that, we’re mostly free, either gaming together or lazing around. It was actually my own goal to create a game throughout my childhood, but I never went through with it since I procrastinated a lot and was more focused on improving my drawing/animation. Lots of personal shit happened to us both, we also grew up in a flash with many scrapped ideas. It’s actually mainly my ideas, I create a story in my head and ask for my friend’s input or opinions, then I scrap it or reuse it after more thought. I’ve practiced coding and making small games but AGAIN fuck my lazy ass, I just pause unfinished projects and leave them for a week-month until I’m motivated again. Now what’s really making me stuck is that I just made a good ass game idea after years and I was really excited to share it with my friend. After I shared and got some more ideas and feedback from my friend, I feel like I’m the only one doing the work while they just act like the reviewer. I don’t wanna seem like an asshole, I’ve told them many times they should at least practice drawing, coding, researching things for our game, etc. they don’t have to be great at it, just the bare minimum. I’m the main artist and I’m moving onto 3D now, I have even suggested gifting them a drawing tablet and a laptop, but they rejected it and said they will just be the one who will give me ideas and I should make it happen since I’m the one who can draw and code. All they do everyday is game after work and hang out with their other friends and just leave short responses to my messages about the designs I show them. This made me really stop working on the game for a month straight because it feels like they don’t care. I know I shouldn’t force someone to be passionate as me, but my friend wants to help me, just not actually make one together. I feel overwhelmed since I’ve been practicing on music making, game styles, etc. I don’t want to stop working with them, they’re my friend but it really sucks since I wanted this game to be the first to be published by us together and show we can make it possible. (Sorry for the too many “buts”)