Please explain to me why we would allow this?

Seeing this is such a red flag for me. Im trying to move off of big corps. Switched over from an Apple to a Pixel with GrapheneOS. Got off of iCloud and Google Drive. And a lot more things, the list can go on. Why? Because fuck em! I am curious to know how many self hosters would actually consider this? HomeLink for free? I personally see huge red flag on providing Meta LITTERAL access to essentially everything. I use Muse on a seperate account and really enjoy it but I cant see myself loving it this much...