Book Recommendations and Notes

These are my recently read books and some comments and notes from when I read them.

As I love books and recommendations by others, I want to share them in a collective format so others can read gems of books, as I think books are still the best way to read new information these days. Even more with the fast pace we are going at, as books are well structured and made for the long term.

Book Recommendations I’ve Read

Over the years, I have made recommendations in Writer’s Room, my newsletter, on my now page or in person. Here I have collected and curated them over the years including some comments. I hope you enjoy.

2026

• Maintenance of Everything (Stewart Brand): This is just so good, it tells the story of how maintenance is everything if you rely on a boat on the sea, for example. Making the product easy to repair so you can fix it even in a rough sea with limited tools. It’s an analogy you can apply to every part of life, and the way the story is told is so great. I couldn’t stop listening to the audiobook. I really recommend it to everyone; I’m sure it will give you lots of insights into your current work.
• Big Time (Laura Vanderkam): Started with the goal of getting more out of my time. So far, I’ve learned that time management is essentially about controlling time, but it’s not the only way. And that “Shifting Left” is not only used in data engineering, Laura describes doing tasks long before they are due as shifting left too. Good reminder of how to use time better, nothing revolutionary, but lots of real-life examples from her and her clients.
• The Writing Life (Annie Dillard): A poetic way of what it means to be a writer. Great storytelling. Learning how to write with a family as part of her stories.

2025

• Novelist as a Vocation (Haruki Murakami): Such an amazing book on writing. It really reminded me of my writing style, as he translates words and tries to write beautifully for the sake of beauty, not to impress the reader. No timeline. It takes as long as it takes until the quality is good. And he likes a good challenge to keep him engaged, e.g., when he goes abroad to start from scratch. His style is so unique and amazing. It’s a joy to listen to.
• Greenlights (Matthew McConaughey): This book was so real. Matthew reads and shares from his 35 years of journaling and life. So inspiring and [[Writing from The heart|straight from the heart]]. It was interesting and motivating to hear from a Hollywood actor and celebrity what truly matters: family and keep livin. Alright, aaaalright, alriiight. → I listened to the audiobook, and his Texan accent was the best. He was rhyming, slowing down, calming down, getting loud, all of it. It was like sitting next to him and listening to your dad or uncle.
• Consider This (Chuck Palahniuk): The author of Fight Club shares how to write if you were his student. A masterclass if you want to enhance your writing.
• You Can Negotiate Anything (Herb Cohen): Interesting perspective that you can negotiate even at places you’d never thought of, even at a shopping mall. Always keep in mind what the other’s objective is. There are always three elements that are part of a negotiation: information, time, and power.
• The Bible: I also started to read the Bible, the most sold book on earth. I wanted to understand what’s in there. Obviously, it’s so massive, and it’s actually not one book, but a collection of many. I get a similar sensation to one of my favorite books The Daily Stoic (366 Meditations). It’s like a daily meditation. While Ryan Holiday’s book helps me feel calmer, the Bible nourishes my love and care for others.
• Stolen Focus: Why You Can’t Pay Attention (Johann Hari): This book inspired me to write an article about flow myself: Finding Flow. Super insightful and probably will make you want to ban social media by the government.
• Useful Not True (Derek Sivers): Derek is the master of stripping away. This book has so much wisdom in short one-page stories from Derek’s life. It’s a gem. Perfect to re-read, over and over. It’s next to my sleeping place to just grab.
• Tao Te Ching (Lao Tzu): Dao and Daoism: Men - earth - universe - dao. If you don’t want to read the bible, this is a none religious way of getting solitude and compassion.

2024

• The Good Work (Paul Millerd): A continuation of the famous Pathless Path, not as good, but OK. Please read it if you haven’t yet.
• The Extended Mind (Annie Murphy Paul): A powerful book. I started reading it again.
• Do The Work (Steven Pressfield): It’s not the best book, maybe also because I’ve heard or read lots of the content already elsewhere, but I appreciated that it was short and that he didn’t try to extend it to 300 pages.

2023

• Slow Productivity (Cal Newport): This is a fantastic book. It showcases why we should quit the race of everyday life and slow down for a compounding effect instead of overnight success. The same is true for money: investing long term instead of gambling in a casino. He describes that instead of pseudo productivity, which is the norm these days, where we try to be as busy as possible to showcase we are doing something, we should try to be as productive as possible.
• Elon Musk (Walter Isaacson): It’s very long, but I loved every page (or word as I listened to it on Audible). It is inspiring. It shows how an exceptional, hard-working Musk is doing everything for humanity in an unhealthy way. He is also, to an extent, sick. He has his dark sides that just come out sometimes, which are also a sign of his mental state that he got from his dad, and also from his hard work and pressure. He is thriving in chaos. Whenever there is a calm time, he will do something new as he can’t stand the status quo.
• How Will You Measure Your Life? (Clayton M. Christensen): A good book if you want to know more than just work and how you’ll measure it. This book was reassuring and strengthened many things I already knew. It reminded me that finding your principles is the key. Follow them and align your life so you have a happy life. It was also helpful for me as a dad and family member to pass on the same principles and values to my kids. Be intentional about your values. It’s hard to find them. They won’t be sent to you. You need to make them. But be aware that it is a process, not an event.
• The Good Enough Job (Simone Stolzoff): A compelling book that challenges our conventional thinking about work. Instead of idolizing our jobs or incessantly chasing a better one, Stolzoff advocates for finding satisfaction in a “good enough” job. His ideas offer a refreshing contrast to the pervasive Instagram-era narrative that equates career success with personal fulfillment. A highly recommended read for anyone feeling pressured by the modern-day cult of work.
• The Daily Dad (Ryan Holiday): This book is a sequel to one of my all-time favorite reads, The Daily Stoic. In the same tradition of offering daily philosophical advice, this book focuses on the challenges and rewards of parenthood. TODO
• The Extended Mind (Annie Murphy Paul): An exploration of the intriguing ways our environment influences our thinking processes. Discover the surprising ways in which experts think beyond their brains, how harder thinking often leads to fewer results and the controversy over brain-training games and smart pills. Explore how we can use tools beyond the brain, such as the Body Scan technique and meditation, to tap into our intuition and sensations, and learn about the significance of the amygdala in our responses to stress.
• All the Wrong Moves (Sasha Chapin): A captivating narrative where the world of chess serves as a backdrop for introspection and self-discovery. A story that shows how the love of chess can fully dominate one’s life, as it’s the most beautiful and worst thing in life at the same time.

2022

• Atomic Habits (James Clear): The main argument: If you want to add a new habit, chain it to an existing one to make it stick.
• Building a Second Brain (Tiago Forte): I knew most of it from his…